Well, I just have to say that 2 loss isn't quite what I thought. At first, it was pretty easy. Now, it's getting really difficult. Gabby sleeps great, but Spencer doesn't. I have absolutely no free time at all because now we don't have Spencer nap in hopes he sleeps better (still didn't work). So pretty much, I get nothing done. Can I just say how much I really miss doing anything at all? I got to go to the temple today, and I enjoyed that free time way too much, as in I didn't want to go get my kids afterwards. Both Jacob and I have lots of things on our to do lists and we never have time for those things, or each other. Sometimes I wonder how much we could accomplish in a free afternoon/day if we got a babysitter.
Someone please tell me it gets better. And does anyone have any tips?
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
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It does get better. For me, trying to do things while the kids are awake can be pretty frustrating, but if I PLAN to do things with them, then I'm happy because I'm doing what I plan. I've learned instead of putting grown-up things on my check list (respond to emails, finish this project, etc.), I put things for them--read five books, go to the park. Then I feel like I'm accomplishing something and we're all happy ;)
It gets better, but two kids is definitely a transition. It is hard for sure. Hang in there! We should plan play dates so Aaron can help wear out spencer better! (Or at least the days we get out and play my kids sleep better). Hopefully that will help?
Both the above comments are great advise! And don't worry, it does get better. For me, going from just one kid, to having two kids, was a huge adjustment and very difficult. In part, because I had just barely moved to a new state/town and knew no one! But also because it seemed like my "free time" was gone. But they grow and so will you. It is fun watching that and a blessing for me to be a part of their journey. Now we have 4 kids, and believe me honey, you have more "free time" than you think! ;)
I'm excited to see you tonight, Britney! And I can't wait to see your kids. What a tricky stage, with a baby who needs you every minute she's awake, and a 2 year old (wait, is he 3 yet?) who is done with naps!! Yes, I imagine you are pretty exhausted right now, and I hope more than anything you get the sleep you need. The rest can wait! Seriously, just embrace the crazy stage you're in-- do whatever works to keep everyone happy, and don't worry one minute about things that can wait. Eh, enough advice-- you've got this. See you soon!
that is why child #2 was obsessed with Wiggles. Now I have 5 kids. and just keep on thinking where has time gone???
They do grow up and need you less, but need you more in other ways. My oldest turns 14 a couple of weeks, and I sometimes think she needs me more then the baby.
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